“Back in December” he began “when we thought we were having a kid, I got overwhelmed. “We” (the interviewer asked) Is there a woman in your life? “Yeah” he responded–smiling yet no elaborating. He says, “she is really, really special. It’s the longest relationship I’ve been in, largely because I don’t feel any kind of marry-me-now pressure from her”.
JUST IN CASE YOUR UNABLE TO SEE THE WRONG IN THIS AS A CHRISTIAN, HERE ARE THE KEY “WRONGS” IN HIS STATEMENT:
1. “when we thought we were having a kid” – What? By no means are we trying to condemn Tyler, we hope and pray he gets saved “for real”, however almost having a kid means what?…That he is is openly having sex before marriage. As a Christian, I thought that was out of the question? Just imagine the amount of black people that are fans of Tyler. Better yet, just imagine how many black Christians that are having sex and look to Tyler as a Christian role model. Not a good example! God wants us practicing abstinence and celibacy.
2. “she is really, really special” – At our W.D.M. Conferences, we address the “feeling” component when being in a relationship. Feeling and knowing is two different things. Women, here is a tip, don’t fall for the “okie doke”, any man that is interested in you will “PURSUE” you. You don’t have to have sex to keep him pursuing. Not to Character assassinate the woman Tyler is involved with but by sleeping with him, she gave him the license to “NOT COMMIT” to her. The best thing that she can know for sure is that Tyler thinks “she is really, really special.” A red flag that he has no commitment in mind.
3. “largely because I don’t feel any kind of marry-me-now pressure from her”. – Here he says that he doesn’t feel pressured to marry her, you know why?…because she had SEX with him. Not to say anyone should feel pressured into marrying but lets be real! Again, at our Conferences we explain these things. If men are “pursuers” by nature you cannot make things easy for them to catch. Once men catch what they are hunting for, they lose interest because the chase is over! How many Church women and men are engaging in sexual intercourse? Let us put it this way, we are sure that you know some that are in your area. Too much disobedience, too much STD’s going around, and NOT enough PREACHING and TEACHING on this. Folks, if you are a Christian and reading this article, please understand that what Tyler Perry is promoting is not of God and is plain Wrong. God wants you pure, He wants you to follow His commands and not the ways of this world. God has a PLAN (track), for your life! If you need more help in this area, please Email us at: